How do you plan an approach? All this preparation, practice and now it’s time for the big game, you must enter with a great game plan. In order to do just that, you need to know what you should not do as much as what you should do. On the playing field, you learn how to avoid the other team’s best player, or where to hit the ball, this isn’t a whole lot different, so here is what you need to avoid.
You don’t want to appear to be any kind of threat. This means when you get to the party or event you are going to have to work your way around the room before you ever approach your intended target. Certainly you were invited by people you know so make sure you talk to them, be sure to thank your host or hostess, and sample the buffet and the drink bar a bit.
If you go to the function and bolt right toward the lovely woman who you wanted to meet since the last party, and appear to be an overaggressive, hungry lion, intent on mating in a very aggressive fashion, not only is she going to turn you down, chances are your host or hostess might escort you to the door rather abruptly and very physically. This is not what we want to happen at all.