Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make In The Game Of Dating

You know what a lot of systems that don’t work to get you laid have in common? They all talk about how to approach a woman. In fact, they give you lines to memorize that you’re supposed to parrot back to a woman.

These lines backfire and you end up going home alone – yet again. In fact, you should throw out any lines that you’ve learned about approaching women. They’re not working for you and you need something that works that’s a natural method.

The most natural method in the world is important because women accept or reject a man based on how he conducts his approach. Pick up lines don’t work because you can bet that she’s heard it all before – especially if she’s on the hot end of the scale.

And by the way, guys, she should be on the hot end of the scale. Don’t settle because you really don’t have to. Another reason that pick up lines don’t work is that they’re usually someone else’s words.

It’s not something that you’d normally say and because the words aren’t normally something you’d say, they come across like you’re a used car salesman hoping to close a deal.

She picks up on that, she walks away and you strike out. You might not know that your chances of getting sex from a woman is less than ten percent because of something you’ve verbally said.

Believe it or not, what women pay attention to more than anything is body language. She’s reading you and she understands what you’re not saying as much as what you are saying with your body.

The problem with a woman ensues because most men have no idea how to read a woman’s body language in return and it’s important that you grasp it. The reason that it’s important is because this is the gate that opens the door to let you in places where you want to be.

If you can’t find the door, you certainly can’t knock on it. A woman uses body language to express interest and she reads your body language to see if you’re someone worth being interested in.

You might have heard of or even taken a course that teaches what to look for when it comes to a woman’s body language. These signs might include the way that she angles her body so that it’s facing you.

The way that she touches her hair or her lips or her face is something else that men are taught to look out for that means a woman is showing interest. A woman smiling means she’s showing interest is something that’s taught in many courses for men when it comes to getting laid.

But think about something for a minute. The women that you run into during the course of the day, the woman working at the bank, the woman working at the grocery store – just because they’re smiling at you, doesn’t mean they’re interested.

They’re just showing friendliness because it’s part of their job to be polite. What all of this means is that you can’t rely on certain body language movements as a definitive invitation to pursue that woman into bed.

You have to stop wondering, stop guessing about the ways that women send out signals. There are other, clearer methods that you need to learn that take the guesswork out of knowing whether or not a woman is interest.

There are clues that you need to know. One of the clues about women has nothing to do with women. That sounds strange, but it’s true. It has to do with you.

But you can learn how to use body language to your advantage. You do this by letting them be sexual triggers. For example, did you know that if you allow your gaze to drop to a woman’s lips and you let her see your gaze drop, that it causes her emotional mind to immediately jump to the idea of having sex with you?

It does, but you have to have the confidence to even get to this point.

Tips To Improve Your Skills In Storytelling

We now have an arsenal of killer stories that have had your friends, family and coworkers laughing and asking you to tell and retell. The local bookstore has offered you a regular story telling hour for a small bit of extra money and you are ready to go, but how will you use these stories at the party.

What you need to know is the old adage, always leave them wanting more, which is used a lot in theater and other show business is so very true.  You are going to need to have your stories ready to tell, but just like a commercial break during your favorite TV show, you are going to stop before you get to the good part.

This is why you need to have several stories to tell. In order to be entertaining and somewhat the life of the party, at least the life of the conversation, you need to be able to tell a story, stop before you get to the funny, sad, or heroic part and start another story. By doing this, you will leave your audience wanting to know the ending of the first story and not really ready for the next story.

Again, this will take some practice and perfection, you will need to take it out to your friends, family and coworkers and give it a try, although by now they might be getting tired of your stories and not want to hear them. If this is the case, see how the stories work if you go to a bar, or club, or even if you decide to ride some public transportation; you might get a different reaction from people who have never heard them before.

Tips and Tricks (Well, Not Really.)

I know you have a great list of stories ready to go, but just to recap a little and make sure you have covered all the ground you can, what are the subjects of your stories? If your stories cover your childhood, trips you have taken, interesting events in your life, and especially embarrassing moments, you have got it right.

On the other hand, if you did not think of one or more of these subjects, now is the time to look back and add a few more stories to you repertoire.  It sure can’t hurt for you to be fully armed with all the great stories you can think of.

The other tip I have is to figure out how to brag without sounding like you are bragging. That is going to be a bit of a tough skill to muster, but remember in the stories where you are the hero, let the audience come to the conclusion you are the hero, don’t throw it in their faces.

In fact, during these stories is a great time to get out one of the most embarrassing stories you have so they can see both sides of you, the heroic, and the self-deprecating. By doing this you are fully exuding confidence in yourself to get the job done, and have the ability to laugh at yourself when you make a mistake.