Monthly Archives: March 2014

Fun Negative Remarks Are Just To Gain Her Attention

In the opposite realm of excluding a girl and making sure she knows you think you are too good for her.  At least you want her to think that you think you are too good for her, but in reality you don’t think you are too good for her, you just want her to think that. I think that was way too much think for me or anyone else.

At any rate, you now have excluded her from your conversation, or insulted her or done something to make her chase you down ready to throw a drink in your face, slap you across the face, or God forbid place a knee in a very tender location on your body. No matter what, when she does have that reaction it is time to take that table you just flipped completely over and use it to your advantage.

When she gets to you, be ready to let her know you were not serious about the remarks you made earlier, all you wanted to accomplish was to gain her attention and look you have it now. Hopefully when you point this obvious fact out to her she will smile a bit sheepishly, realizing you have just played a game and won with her. read more

Demonstrating Your Added Value When Conversing With Women

How much are you bringing to this conversation? Are you only telling stories that make you seem like a laughingstock, or have you found a way to add some variety to the story telling? What I am talking about here is adding value.

The value I mention is not in how much money you make, what kind of car you drive, or where you live, but rather what do your stories tell the woman you are spending time with. Are you telling her you are a clumsy buffoon who needs a ton of extra life insurance to make sure someone gets rich when you finally fall to your death?  Or are you telling her you take risks you really shouldn’t in life?

The point here is simple, yes you need to have some funny, self-deprecating stories to tell, but you also need to talk about times you were a hero in a story, trips you have taken, occasions that have broken your heart, and others that have warmed your heart. I know that sounds like a lot, but you should have lots of time. read more

Growing Confidence to Make Every Woman Want You

Remember those jerks that seem to get every hot woman on the market? Wondering what it is that they have that you don’t have? They’ve got confidence. They don’t worry about what’s going on inside her head.

Those jerk guys know that women want them. Instead of watching and being envious, you need to understand what it is that makes them so confident that women can’t get enough of them and why they have more women waiting in the wings than they could possibly satisfy in a lifetime.

You have to learn that confidence isn’t cockiness. It’s not acting arrogant toward women. It’s an inner self-knowledge that you are the one. Here’s something about women that most men who want to get laid and are failing at it don’t know. read more

Approaching A Woman Who Is Alone Is A Great Opportunity To Hone Your Skills

Get yourself out from under your bed, this isn’t that scary, it’s simple really, and you have learned how to talk to people you deal with all the time in public already, so why not a stranger that is not your clerk or bank teller, it’s time to test those skills.

A great place to start would be on a bus or subway; many people use public transportation daily and end up spending quite a bit of time on the bus or on a subway quietly with no one to talk to. Even if you have your own vehicle and don’t usually take public transportation, make yourself do it just to practice talking to women in a public setting.

The advantage is the fact the woman you are going to start a conversation with is stuck with you at least until the next stop so try it out and hone your conversation skills to a sharp point. The start here might be as simple as asking if the seat next to her is taken and if not sitting down. Once accepted, introduce yourself to her and shake her hand, be sure to smile and make good eye contact as well. read more

How To Get Women To Open Up During Conversations

I have always love that line form Ali Baba where Aladdin says “Open Sesame” and growing up watching Sesame Street on TV when I was a kid I thought the word street should have been added to the end of it, but I digress.

Our “relationship guru” colleagues would tell you once you have the woman alone, not in the back of you panel van taped up you sicko. Geez, that guy needs some help. Rather once you have her alone on your walk or in private; the “experts” would say you need to ask her a lot of questions.

Their thinking regarding the questions is if you ask about her, she will feel you are really very interested in her and want to know all about her. Obviously there is some truth to that, but not enough for you to simply ask her a bunch of questions and never do any opening up yourself. Any woman I have ever talked to about this particular subject says they want to know about the man just as much as they want to tell about themselves. read more

Basic Grooming Tips You Must Embrace Before Going Out To Meet Women

Take a look in the mirror and tell yourself what you see. Be honest with yourself, it won’t do you any good to lie to yourself, because only you know yourself as well as you do. Please someone try and say that five times fast, I got dizzy just writing it.

If you see a guy who could use a shave, needs a haircut, could stand to lose a few pounds, or just a plain, ordinary looking guy, well join the club. That speaks for a majority of the men in this world, but now that you know this needs to be changed, what are you

My first suggestion is going to be to get a shave. If you don’t like to shave, or you really like your beard, that’s ok, just get it trimmed and keep it well groomed.  Having a clean looking face or a well groomed beard tells a woman that you care about how you look. That is really important to her in many ways. read more