What If She Likes Me But Has A Boyfriend?

Generally speaking, women are more devoted to their partners compared to men. So it must really be telling when one likes you but is still in a relationship. There are some big reasons why a woman can allow herself to fall for you even though she has a boyfriend.

1) Her relationship is too boring

2) Her boyfriend is too boring

3) She honestly feels that she deserves a better man and will in fact end up with one

4) The relationship started at a time when all she wanted was a companion

5) Her boyfriend is abusive

6) Her boyfriend is having an affair

7) She has decided to break up and move on long ago and just waiting for new guy to show up

8) You are just too attractive physically, financially, or socially

No matter what the reason is, you have to make the decision to go for it or not. At this stage, the ball is really in your court. But remember that going for it can mean a number little headaches for yourself. Some of these include confrontations with the boyfriend, emotional instability of the girl, living with guilt, or even worst living with her guilt. In mind of these potential banana skins, there are always 2 criteria that you have to access before making your decision to go for the kill.

1) Is she really worth it? If you do not see a long term future with this girl and only want a quick couple of lays, the adult thing to do is to leave her alone. Destroying other people’s relationships for your own sexual needs, ego boost and bragging rights is just not right. Even if your previous girlfriend was stolen from you, it does not mean that you can get even by doing it to someone else. But of course, if she is an exceptional woman and you think this is your one chance to get a woman of such quality in your life, you might just want to go for it.

2) Is the boyfriend treating her well? Needless to say, a physically abusive boyfriend is something everyone should look down upon. Many times, boyfriends are really decent people. Just that they are too boring and does not really add any value to the girl’s life. She knows it, he knows it, and now you know it. In these cases, many boyfriends will let their girlfriends go willingly as they know that it is inevitable that the relationship will end.

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Relationships come and go. It is just the way it is. There is no need to feel guilty about anything. When she likes you but has a boyfriend, it is very clear that a decision has to be made by both of you. This is a time where you can be frank and discuss your concerns since she has already indicated to you that she is into you. The important thing is to make that decision and follow through on it whether it is one decision or the other. If you are lucky she will end the relationship herself without even informing you and you will find that tomorrow is going to be one that you will remember for a while.

She Says She Has A Boyfriend – Second Guessing The Truth

When you talk to a beautiful woman even if it is just a casual conversation, hearing her say that she has a boyfriend is as anti-climax as any guy can imagine. Just when you are having the most interesting and sensual conversation, a sudden flash of facts can really affect you game. While experienced seducers will intuitively know how to get around this, a newbie can let this revelation screw up his game totally.

While the honourable thing to do as a man is to stop advancing on women who are attached, there are many instances that hot women blurt this information out because it is their defence mechanism activating when they feel attraction for you. They feel something for you and being afraid that things are going too fast, the quickest way to slow it down is to say that they have boyfriends. If you are lucky to be in such a situation, here are some tips on how to manage this unwanted awkward situation and turn up on top.

Firstly, you have to understand what does it really mean when she says that she has a boyfriend. It is so easy to take her words literally. Because men tend to say things in a straight forward way without beating about the bushies, we also tend to take what women says literally word-for-word. The thing is, women very often say things with hidden meanings and agendas. One word out of women’s mouths can contain a thousand unsaid words.

One of the key characteristics of men who are successful with women and dating is that they understand women say what they think and do what they feel. If you are into body language stuff, notice her body language when she mentions about having a boyfriend. Does it convey the same meaning as her words. What you might want to look out for are eye contact, facial expressions, flirting with her hair, etc.

One sure sign to look out for is whether she is wearing an engagement or wedding ring. When married women want to show people that she is taken, they wear their rings. But many women wear rings just for the sake deflecting low quality men. When you make a move on these women who are single with rings on their fingers, you immediately show that you are a man with confidence. In these instances, just ask what the ring on their fingers mean.

If you have had your share of dating many women, you will intuitively know when a women is telling the truth or when they are full of BS. You might even come to a stage where you do not have to side step women’s availability and ask her directly if she is in a relationship. Women who knows what they want will find your boldness and directness attractive.

Another important point to take note is that love stories you see in the movies and on television are just made up stories. You are not going to see a hot women who is looking at you like a hungry couger, make instant connection and just end up in bed after the commercial break. Unless you have the good looks of Leonardo DiCaprio of course. The guy that you see in real life who has a hot girlfriend was usually rejected about a dozen times by her before finally landing his prize. So if you are to give up at any whiff of rejection, you are not really ready to date women who are more attractive than average.

The most straight forward way to react when women says they have boyfriends is to totally ignore it as if your mental hard drive has no space for spam messages. If you have to respond, say something corky like “I’m not your boyfriend yet” or “Right…”. Doing these does not hurt your chances at all. If she really is in a relationship, what you say does not matter. If she does not really have a boyfriend, she is going to find you intriguing. It’s a sure win situation for you. When women keeps throwing this “boyfriend” crap at you, and you keep responding like it is no issue, something magical happens. Many times you will find her starting to laugh. And that laugh comes from feeling attraction to you.

So remember this. When a woman says that she has a boyfriend during your first interactions, ignore her comment or continue ploughing through. There really is nothing to lose. Either you lose her, which you already technically have since she is attached. Or you win big time as she was just testing to see if you are a real man who can take rejection, get up and play the game.

Getting Her Used To Your Touch Is Critical For Success With Wowmen

For lack of a more clever title for this section, we will just call it what it is, touch. If our hide, tease, show technique from the previous sections has worked, you should be engaged in a fun and interesting conversation with this lovely lady. The next way you are going to show interest in her is going to be to touch her.

The touch section is set up so you can get to the next section so it’s really important you get a positive reception when trying to touch this beautiful young woman. If you reach for her hand and she pulls it away like you were a crocodile about to snatch it off, well, you didn’t read her correctly and timing wasn’t right, so make sure you know the timing is right to get her to let you touch her.

Of course you can employ the tactic used during the first portion of the book, if you took the time to learn how to read palms, there is nothing wrong with telling her you know how to read palms and would like to show her your skill. It is at the very lease more mature than asking her to engage in a game of rock, paper, scissors, and you get to hold her hand, not so in the rock, paper, scissors game.

If you did not take the time to learn the palm reading from the first part of the booklet, shame on you go back and learn it now, don’t come back until you have mastered the fine art of palm reading. Of course I am kidding; you need to find a way for this woman to allow you to grasp her hand in yours. Sometimes this can be a natural occurrence if you are both looking at each other across the table and you simply reach out and take her hand in yours, or it might take a little bit more work.

One way to get her to hold your hand is to take it in yours and say something like “Let me show you something” or if someone is walking up to the area you two are in and will need a clear passage grabbing her hand and moving her out of the way. Either way, once you have her hand, if she allows you to, don’t let go of her hand.

If she does take her hand back, you will have to try to regain contact at some point in the conversation. The whole point of trying to hold her hand is to increase the intimacy between the two of you in preparation for our last section.

Why do you need to prepare for that last section? You need to get her to be used to you touching her, and you need to gain her trust in you before you can successfully move on to anything that might seem more intimate at all. That is why something as simple as holding her hand can be one of the biggest steps of the night for both of you.

In fact, the fact that she allows you to hold her hand send a signal to you that she is interested in you, not just biding time with you because of your witty and charming conversation. Make sure you take this as a very good sign that she really likes you and is attracted to you that certainly means your method of hide, tease, and show worked how you intended it to, and didn’t backfire for once.

As a word of warning, if she does not allow you to hold her hand, or after the palm reading has taken her hand back, don’t get too pushy. She might just not be ready to have that close intimacy of touching just yet and the two of you just met anyway. Just make sure you continue to have a nice conversation together, because you aren’t out of the game just yet.

Conversely, if you have now been holding hands and talking for a while it really is time to move on to the last section of the showing interest section of our booklet, good luck and have fun.