Use Your Memory To Add Value To Your Conversations With Women

As we approach our next key to success we see this one is called value. I am certainly not at all talking about money, but rather what do you actually bring to the conversation.  How are you going add your part of the conversation in and what do you think you should be saying to the other person?

Sometimes it is really hard to find value that you can bring to the group, have you ever felt that awkward silence when no one has anything else to say? That can be the absolute downfall of what was shaping up to be a very nice evening.

What you are going to have to do in order to add the value you want to bring to the conversation will be to have some topics you want to discuss prepared ahead of time. This is a whole lot different from your one liner to open up the conversation that we covered in the area of a starting line, which was just to get your foot in the door, now you have to perform. Similar to being a professional athlete, just because you have made it to the pros does not mean you have succeeded as a pro yet, that is what we are after.

You might be wondering how are you going toad to any conversation going on around you, what could you possible add that will show some value to someone else?  First of all, you should realize you have to have a lot of value to someone they invited you to the party or function. So what is it that makes you unique, what do you have to share with the group?

In order to figure this out you are going to have to utilize some of your sources, friends and family, and start to do some thinking. I know I have racked your brain a couple times already in this booklet and you are screaming for me to stop invading your brain, but this should be a lot of fun, and can bring back some memories from yesteryear you may have forgotten over time.

Memory Aids

Remember that friend or family member or group of friends and family you asked to help you work on your voice and posture?  The same ones who made fun of you along the way to helping you stand up straighter and develop a pleasing tone and pattern to your voice will hopefully be the ones you need here.

What you now need to do is ask them to help you remember events from your past. It doesn’t matter how silly, serious, sad, funny or crazy these events were, they will have a different memory of how the situation played out and give you a different perspective to view them from.  By using your friends and family and remembering these events, you will develop a list of stories you can tell at a party or function.

Be sure to write them down, why would you want to have these memories to share and not have them written down on paper, at least the parts you know you want to share with others. It will be good to have a good list of the stories, and be sure you have a variety of them. Using your friendly recorder to capture the events as your friends and family recount them to you will be very helpful for later when you try and make your notes.

Do you think it’s a good idea to be the hero of every story? The answer is no, if you go to an event and all you have to tell people about yourself is stories of wondrous deeds you committed to save a drowning cat, or pulled your friend out of a well, other people at the party are going to think you are just there to brag. Besides, unless you are a TV or movie superhero, most of the people at the party won’t even believe these stories, so mix it up.

Mixing it up might be difficult at first, you might find yourself stuck on one subject like an old record player when the needle gets stuck in a spot on the record.  What is a record player, man I must be really old. Ok how about when the Blu-Ray or DVD player stops because the laser is stuck in a spot on the disc that has a scratch in it, is that a better visual for you?

Anyway, you need variety in your stories, make sure you have some that bring out a variety of emotions and absolutely have a plan to tell at least a few that leave you feeling a bit embarrassed, or at the very least the punch line of the joke. By incorporating this kind of story into the mix, you will show you are confident enough to allow others to laugh at your pitfalls as much as you have.

More practice

Now it’s time for that all important part of perfecting any task; practice. You will need to practice telling your stories to someone, anyone and everyone who will listen to you and might show at least a mild interest.  Before you take them out to show them off to others, you need to practice at home.

Bring out your friends the recorder and the full length mirror and get to work.  Pretend you are at the party already and start telling your first story.  While telling your story, watch yourself in the mirror, did you lose your perfect voice, did your old posture and bad body language come back?

If the answer is no, then you are on your way to telling stories to others and capturing their attention.  The next step is to listen to the playback of your story.  How did it come out?  Did you sound confident, would you want to listen to you tell stories, and is the story itself interesting enough?

All of these questions are important to answer before you get out there and lose your audience because your life has been a shelter boredom of snacks in your mother’s basement on the computer.  Well, hopefully not that bad, and unless you are the “bubble boy” you won’t have any problem adding some interest and pizzazz to your stories.

After you have worn out the recorder and the mirror won’t even look your way anymore, try your stories out on friends, family and coworkers.  How do they react to them?  If they seem genuinely interested and laugh at the jokes, make sad faces at the sad parts, and appear to champion the hero when you do something brave in the story, then you are on the right track for sure.

What Is It About Pre-Selection That You Have To Work On?

Pre-selection is a term that means women want you. They want to have sex with you. But the principle is based similar to the way that dominoes work. You know how when you push one domino and they all start to fall over?

That’s the same way pre-selection works. With dominoes, one block always follows another when it’s given a push. With pre-selection, one woman wants the man that another woman already has.

And this is not an occasional thing. This is an always factor. This is why that you’ll see short, ugly, out of shape men be able to cheat on their wives or girlfriends with a hot girl who’s willing to give it up any time of the day.

She wants this unattractive guy simply because another woman did. It’s all based on the way that rejection sets a man up for failure. Rejected men get rejected. Accepted men get accepted.

A hot woman that you’d like to have sex with notices that you’re not getting turned down by women. This opens the door for you to have sex with other women.

Don’t worry about it if you’re already in a committed relationship. Women actually desire a man even more if he’s already committed to being with someone else. There’s a good reason why pre-selection increases your chances of getting laid – and it has to do with the perception women have about men.

Men are driven by testosterone. It makes them crave sex more often than not. This drive often leads a man to have sex with random women regardless of who they are, how they met and sometimes even whether they’re pretty and in shape or fat and out of shape.

They don’t care who she is or even if she’s already with another guy. What matters to a man is that she’s willing. Women, on the other hand, want to have sex with men that don’t have a rejection rate.

The reason for this is because a man who sleeps with women, even if it’s a lot of women, is considered a good man. Mainly because he’s wanted. He’s the guy in high demand and women see that.

They figure that if others want him, then he has to be a good man. It’s crazy, but that’s the way that a woman’s brain works.

Quick arousal

While a man can go from zero to sixty in just a few seconds when they’re ready to have sex, it doesn’t work that way for a woman. You have to know the three main techniques to use that arouse a woman and make her want you like she just can’t get enough of you.

If you don’t know these techniques, you need to learn them. Because if you don’t know them, you might find that you get laid hit and miss – but you’ll miss more times than you’ll hit.

Most men have the mistaken belief that arousal for a woman starts with touch and that it begins before the physical act of sex. But women don’t turn it on like a man does.

When a woman turns him down for sex, a man thinks that either he blew his chance or the woman is just the kind who doesn’t like sex. That’s a lie that men believe.

Women like sex and most of them like it as much as a man does. What they don’t like is the clumsy, inept approach that unlearned men use. For example, did you know that for a woman, the slower the buildup, the more powerful the sex?

You might not understand the importance of this because you’ve never experienced it. So here’s the bottom line. The more aroused a woman is before you even broach the idea of her having sex with you, the greater your chances are that you’re going to get laid.

You have to start approaching her by understanding what her pleasure centers are. You have to work these before you can seal the deal. Then, when you do seal the deal, you can expect sex in a way that you’ve never experienced it before.