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Growing Confidence to Make Every Woman Want You

Remember those jerks that seem to get every hot woman on the market? Wondering what it is that they have that you don’t have? They’ve got confidence. They don’t worry about what’s going on inside her head.

Those jerk guys know that women want them. Instead of watching and being envious, you need to understand what it is that makes them so confident that women can’t get enough of them and why they have more women waiting in the wings than they could possibly satisfy in a lifetime.

You have to learn that confidence isn’t cockiness. It’s not acting arrogant toward women. It’s an inner self-knowledge that you are the one. Here’s something about women that most men who want to get laid and are failing at it don’t know. read more

Approaching A Woman Who Is Alone Is A Great Opportunity To Hone Your Skills

Get yourself out from under your bed, this isn’t that scary, it’s simple really, and you have learned how to talk to people you deal with all the time in public already, so why not a stranger that is not your clerk or bank teller, it’s time to test those skills.

A great place to start would be on a bus or subway; many people use public transportation daily and end up spending quite a bit of time on the bus or on a subway quietly with no one to talk to. Even if you have your own vehicle and don’t usually take public transportation, make yourself do it just to practice talking to women in a public setting.

The advantage is the fact the woman you are going to start a conversation with is stuck with you at least until the next stop so try it out and hone your conversation skills to a sharp point. The start here might be as simple as asking if the seat next to her is taken and if not sitting down. Once accepted, introduce yourself to her and shake her hand, be sure to smile and make good eye contact as well. read more

How To Get Women To Open Up During Conversations

I have always love that line form Ali Baba where Aladdin says “Open Sesame” and growing up watching Sesame Street on TV when I was a kid I thought the word street should have been added to the end of it, but I digress.

Our “relationship guru” colleagues would tell you once you have the woman alone, not in the back of you panel van taped up you sicko. Geez, that guy needs some help. Rather once you have her alone on your walk or in private; the “experts” would say you need to ask her a lot of questions.

Their thinking regarding the questions is if you ask about her, she will feel you are really very interested in her and want to know all about her. Obviously there is some truth to that, but not enough for you to simply ask her a bunch of questions and never do any opening up yourself. Any woman I have ever talked to about this particular subject says they want to know about the man just as much as they want to tell about themselves. read more

Basic Grooming Tips You Must Embrace Before Going Out To Meet Women

Take a look in the mirror and tell yourself what you see. Be honest with yourself, it won’t do you any good to lie to yourself, because only you know yourself as well as you do. Please someone try and say that five times fast, I got dizzy just writing it.

If you see a guy who could use a shave, needs a haircut, could stand to lose a few pounds, or just a plain, ordinary looking guy, well join the club. That speaks for a majority of the men in this world, but now that you know this needs to be changed, what are you

My first suggestion is going to be to get a shave. If you don’t like to shave, or you really like your beard, that’s ok, just get it trimmed and keep it well groomed.  Having a clean looking face or a well groomed beard tells a woman that you care about how you look. That is really important to her in many ways. read more

Getting That Involuntary Response For Women

More than relaxing on a boat in the middle of a lake fishing, and more than watching sports, men want to get laid. If that sounds like you, it means you’re a normal guy.

But wanting something and getting it are two different matters. Just because you want something is no guarantee that you’ll get it – unless you know the techniques that can help you achieve your goal of getting that hot chick and getting laid.

If you check out classic dating courses, you’ll see the techniques that you can learn to become a highly sought after man around town. You have to understand what you’ve been doing wrong and what you need to do in order to get it right. read more

2 Simple Ways To Frame Women As Just A Pretty Face

As strange as it may sound sometimes the best approach is one that shows a woman she is just another pretty face.  We all want to be desirable and have the opposite sex swooning at our feet and for beautiful women that happens a lot. What happens when just the opposite happens, does she lose her mind, will she have problems coping with the idea someone might not worship her?

Amazingly enough, the answer to these questions is yes this type of behavior will absolutely drive her crazy, almost crazy enough to confront whoever is ignoring her and have her shouting “Look at me”  in an embarrassing way. With that in mind, the next question is simply how do we accomplish this feat and how will we know when we have gone too far?

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Don’t Confuse Hooking Up With Making A Connection with Women

Whoa!  I’m not talking about sex here, but a rather a different type of hooking up. I also am not going to just give you the dos and don’ts that the wonderful “love doctors” have done to you for so long. By the way, I think most of those guys live at home in their mothers’ basements, but that’s just my opinion.

Instead we are talking about how to connect with a woman and gain her trust. Ask any woman out there, one thing they value the most and would like to find in a man is someone who provides a sense of security. That security doesn’t always come in the form of financial security, in fact in most cases it doesn’t come from money at all, but rather how a woman feels when she is around you.

If you give of the vibe to a woman that you are a caring, fun, easy going, and most of all trustworthy individual, a lot of times women will let their guard down some and allow you to get to know them. On the other hand if you instead appear to them as a serial killer with duct tape and white panel van waiting to take them away to their death, it won’t matter if you wear your Boy Scout uniform to meet her, she isn’t even going to give you the time of day. read more

4 Stages You Have To Master To Succeed With Women

At a friend’s party, it’s crowded, you see a lady across the room that you would really like to talk to, get to know better, or even be able to date. She’s a ten, having a great time, laughing, joking, drinking and flirting, while you sit, a wallflower with sweaty palms, uncomfortable, lacking confidence, and completely unsure how to even approach such a beauty; another opportunity wasted.

If any of this describes you or any experience you have ever had, don’t be alarmed. Don’t go off thinking there is no way you will ever be able to go out with a woman as beautiful, smart, funny, or as popular as the one I just described to you, because there is no reason you can’t date a woman who is a ten in both looks and personality, but you will have to learn what you need to do.

As with anything at all in life, the keys to success are going to be pretty simple. First of all you have to prepare for the task ahead. Asking a woman out, or even beginning a conversation with one, especially one that makes your heart beat faster and the blood leave your brain, is almost as difficult as learning open heart surgery, but it doesn’t have to be. read more

What Do I Do If I Can Tell She Likes Me?

Now, I am going to ask you to do a few things to have you trying to manipulate the situation in your favor, put certain feelings into the woman’s head and make it seem to her like you are more in control of the situation than you really are. Everything you have read so far will be extremely useful as you go down the road to exclude, notice, and isolate as your last keys to success.

If at this point you don’t feel you have mastered body language, go back and read that part again, because you are going to be asked to read the body language of the people around you more than yourself going forward.

Also, make sure you are very aware of what the feelings you will be trying to create will be as you work your way from the shadow in the corner to the life of the group and eventually having the ability to engage the woman you want to talk to in a conversation between just the two of you. read more

Is Having My Own Car Essential In Dating Successfully?

I would imagine if you are able to go to events, functions, and parties you own a vehicle of some sort. If not, you can skip this part for now, but if you do, I am not going to tell you to go buy a sports car to impress the young lady, but I am going to tell you it is very important to have a clean vehicle.

Any woman, although if you have a sports car it helps, is not so much going to be impressed by what kind of car you drive, but more by how you take care of that car. Think of it this way, if you take care of yourself, you show pride in your own appearance, but can you take care of something else or someone else?

Many women, whether they want to admit it or not, would love to have a man who can take care of them, not only financially, but also have pride in the woman and who she is, what she does, help maintain her a bit, and they can see this in your vehicle. In this case it truly does not matter if the only vehicle you have is your work truck for your construction job, what matters is, how does it run, and is it clean. read more