Make It A Habit In Improving Your Conversational Skills
“What habit” you say, “what is this fool trying to have me try out now? I already talk funny as far as I’m concerned and stand really strange, but what else is he going to have me doing?” Let me tell you, it is time for you to practice what you have written down. This is going to be the third combination to go along with our key of being prepared with conversation starters.
You need to take your conversation starters out for a test run and see how they do with other people. You are going to quickly know which ones worked well and which ones were awful and maybe even laughed at. Without trying them out at work, or even by going to a club or bar and seeing how they work you aren’t going to have any idea what to say when you get to that all important event.
Don’t worry if you have a line or two that doesn’t work at all, remember it really is trial and error. If you remember the movie Groundhog Day, Bill Murray’s character got to relive the same day over and over until he finally got it right and won over the affection of the character played by Andie MacDowell. Let’s hope it doesn’t take this extreme for you to be successful, so get out there and see how your lines work.
Lights, Camera, Action
At this point, you have perfected and put in three of the four combinations to make this particular key work, but now you need to take the last one and finally unlock the door. That final combination is action. You have thought up the scenarios you will be in, imagined what they might feel like and what good lines might be and practiced them on other people around you, not you must act.
So now it’s time to go to the event with the woman you would most like to speak with and strike up a conversation, you have all the starting lines you could ever come up with. In fact you have so many great starting lines for conversations you are thinking of selling them to a late night talk show host to put on the air; but is it really time to get yourself out there and give it a try?
In a short answer, no you are not completely ready for this encounter just yet. However, you are now ready with some great starting lines, a fantastic voice, and know more about body language than any man really should, but this is just the beginning.
Remember in the opening we decided there are going to be seven keys to success to allow you to speak to and have a conversation with the woman you really want to meet. So now it is time to move on to our next key to success, and once we have gotten through them all you can come back here and start putting your lines into action, but for now be satisfied and happy in the fact you have gotten yourself fully prepared.