How Staring With Your Eyes Can Make Or Break Your Game

When a person shows and interest in you what do they do? Do they sit and stare at you and make you uncomfortable wondering if you have something stuck in your teeth or on your clothes? In fact staring is obviously one way to show interest in another person, but really it’s one of the worst ways you could.

If you sit too long anywhere and stare at someone, sooner or later you might have to have conversation with the boys in blue as to why you seem to be stalking someone. That doesn’t make for a very nice first impression at all.  It would be much better for you to learn the best ways to show interest in a person, and there are quite a few.

Our lovely friends, the “dating doctors” once again might tell you to look at the woman you are interested in and eventually she is going to look back. This much might be true, but what sort of vibe are you putting off by doing this and what sort of feeling are you creating in her? read more

A Moment Will Arrive Where You Have To Reveal Your True Self

I do not mean for your to take off your clothes, run around in your birthday suit and let the world see how well equipped you are. I’m pretty certain if you did this the men with the wonderful white jackets that make you hug yourself would show up, and then this booklet is useless to you anyway.

No, in fact what I do mean by revealing yourself is our next section of showing interest and that is to show. Now, instead of just teasing and flirting, or trying to hide and ignore her, you are actually going to give this woman some much deserved attention.

What you are going to do when showing her some attention is to give her a compliment, on what she said, laugh at her jokes, or simply state a positive opinion on her end of the conversation. What you do when you give her these compliments is show her that you aren’t such a bad guy after all. read more

Getting Some Time Alone With Her And Moving From Place To Place

As a word of warning you should not be taking action in this section of the booklet unless you were successful in physical escalation. However, if you in fact were successful, bravo to you and welcome to the final section of the showing interest part, it has been a long journey so far.

This final section will hopefully not start to sound like a harlequin romance novel, or some cheesy movie where you spend half the movie watching two people holding hands and talking with no real movement, but in a way that is what should take place between you two at this point.

So far you have gotten this woman to allow you to hold her hand, and had some nice conversation with light teasing; it’s time for you to take this to the next level. If you haven’t already taken her somewhere private or at least quieter than where you were now is the time to do so. read more

A Fine Line Between Playful Teasing And Being A Jerk

With our next section, teasing, upon us how do we actually tease this lovely woman without being so rude as to turn her off? There is a fine line between playfully teasing a woman and coming off as a complete rude asshole, so make sure you are able to read the signs and come off on the right side of things. Here are some suggestions that should help you along the way.

First of all, in order to even get to the teasing, also known as flirting, part of any conversation or situation with a woman you have to have had some conversation and show an ability to read her body language. Also, if this is the first night you have ever met this woman, keep your teasing to very light hearted subjects, remember if you go overboard you are going to come off as a pompous jackass and that is not fun at all.

Our friends, oh the “dating experts” are so loving me throughout this booklet aren’t they?  Actually just the opposite, but I simply don’t care what they think. They will tell you, as I stated in the previous section, you shouldn’t tease a woman you are pursuing. Instead you need to put her on a pedestal and worship her. If you are doing anything short of adorning her with gifts and showering her with your attention you are wrong. Well, they are wrong, by doing that you only become yesterday’s news to this woman and she will find someone who actually presents her with a challenge. read more

Get Her As Your Girlfriend Even When She Has A Boyfriend Now

To make her your girlfriend even when when she currently has a boyfriend, you have to be patient. You are not going to speed up the process by pressuring her to break up with her boyfriend. In fact, doing so can be detrimental to you efforts.

Even if she has decided to leave her boyfriend, it can take anywhere between 1 week to 4 weeks to finally truly end things with him. So remember to step back and just let her do her thing. There can be many reasons why this can take some time.

  • They are living together. She needs time to find another place and move out
  • Emotional blackmail. The boyfriend could be using their past happiness to blackmail her
  • She needs time to get over the fact that things are over. This is just a phase
  • She need to get support from her friends
  • She wants some time to see whether you are going to stay around

Continue to be the guy she fell in love in the first place when she had a boyfriend. Play to your strengths and note down the qualities that she like about you. Casually display these qualities consistently whenever the 2 of you meet up. read more