Winning back a loved one requires courage, perseverance, hope, spirit, and a small degree of pride. Above all, it requires skills and strategies to make her change her mind. The good news is that getting the skills is easy.
As a man, flashback on how you got her to date you in the first place and how easy it was to focus on her happiness. Now is the time to use those very same skills to try and re-fix the marriage. They worked once and they can work again if you choose to use them.
Once she understands that all of your attention and energy is directed at her, she will most likely put her pride aside, reconsider her lonely status without you, and eventually come back. If it still does not work, try to incorporate other skills as discussed in the following informative paragraphs.
For you to succeed in the second chance, introducing yourself all over again is quite necessary. When that opportunity to meet her presents itself or pops up, show her how important she is to you. Do not be at all be ashamed. Be a man and express your needs to her.
Re-introducing yourself also means getting rid of the past ill behaviors that pushed her away. Settle it in your mind that you are going back to the start and will never again do those things that have hurt her. Go out of our way to make your wife understand how you have change, what makes you think it will work now, and assist her to see the world from your perspective. By all means, convince her on the worth and respect she will gain by sticking to one partner in life, and that you are the only one for each other.
You should always be there to try and please her, especially during this sensitive time. It is sad but true that often times people tend to please strangers more than the ones that they love. Right or wrong? Your wife is worth more than all the gold in this world so treat her like the treasure that she truly is. It is solid ground to build your comeback strategy on pleasing her.
If and when you get the chance to talk to her, treat her like she is the most important person on the planet. By doing it and even without enquiring for it, she will do the same in return. It is human nature and works like a charm. Specifically, as she leaves escort her back to the car and give her a hug, but not a kiss. This will leave her wanting more and pining for your affection.
Another important tip to keep in mind at this time is to make listening your habit and pay close attention to everything she says. This will not only make her feel valued but it will give you clues as to where she is at in considering reconciling.
The last skill in succeeding through the second chance stage should be to use your masculine skills. Remember you are a man so act like a lion and show some pride by backing off for a bit. As part of the conversation, tell her how much you cannot survive or thrive without each other. This will give her the impression that you are chasing her, which works wonders at winning her back, BUT do come across as desperate and understand that before meeting her, you were still an individual with a life. If you show some independence, she will change her attitude. Do not be clingy and give her adequate space to think things through. If she refuses to answer you calls, leave a message such as “Hello my dear, we were meant for each other. I cherish you. Talk to you soon.” Your goal is to always make every form of contact with an outcome in mind, which is to receive the reaction that you want and allow her to find her way back into your arms where she belongs.