Believe it or not, there’s a right way and a wrong way to show that you’re interested in a woman. If you do it the wrong way, you’re going home alone and you can forget about getting laid.
But if you do it the right way, you’ll be able to have your pick among the women that you meet. When a man shows interest in a woman, it can turn her off. Here’s why:
That hot girl knows that you want you when you show interest. What this does is to put the ball firmly in her court. She then controls the game play and decides if you’re worth allowing to get close to her.
You don’t ever want to give up control when it comes to showing interest in a woman. You have to show interest, but you have to do it in such a way that the control never leaves your hand.
You do this by taking control in a genuine way. Yes, the goal is to get laid – but you don’t have to be a jerk to accomplish that goal. Too many men believe that if they act arrogant, women will fall at their feet.
Reality is that the woman is thinking what a jerk this guy is. Wanting to get laid does not make you a jerk. But thinking that it’s all she’s good for does. Plus, that kind of thinking will come out in the way that you interact with her.
You can use a technique and that’s fine but you have to be genuine with the way that you handle your approach. This is especially important if the woman has a high hotness factor because beautiful women can be very picky.
There are some things that are okay to do and other things are not okay. It’s okay and even encouraged that you let her know that other women want you. This behavior ups her interest in you.
Now if you come right out and say that other women want you, she’s going to think it’s ego talking. You always have to have the proof. You do this by making sure that your online life has plenty of evidence of that.
On your social media sites, have pictures that show you interacting with and having fun with beautiful women. Dating photos, hanging out at the beach photos or having drinks at a bar with a beautiful woman are great pre-selection hooks.
So use plenty of those. Make sure that your online life shows that women everywhere are interested in you. Have photos of you interacting with other women on your cell phone photo log.
This shows the woman you want to have sex with that you’re the kind of guy that other beautiful women find desirable. You should also make sure that you show her that you’re not a one-dimension kind of guy.
You do this by showing an interest in her life outside of the bedroom. While this might seem like a bore to you, showing interest outside the bedroom leads to going into the bedroom.
You should ask questions about what she does for work, and what she enjoys doing in her off time. You should ask her favorite places to hang out and what her favorite foods are.
You can do this and not have her think you’re being too eager. This is simply conversation that’s focused on her and it makes her think that you’re genuinely interested in her as more than a body – even if you’re not really.