You’ve Been Lied To About How Attraction Works
Getting a girl to the point where she’s willing to have sex with you isn’t that difficult if you know what you’re doing. It doesn’t matter what your track record for getting women in the bed with you was in the past.
It doesn’t even matter what kind of house you live in, what kind of car you drive or what kind of job that you have. The reason that most men struggle to get women to put out is because these men just don’t know what they’re doing.
In fact, they’re probably making mistakes right now that are continually driving women away from them. You need to work on your game so that you can reel hot chicks in and have success time after time.
Let’s take a look at how you might be sabotaging yourself when it comes to meeting women – and some corrective measures you can take to increase your odds.
The Attraction Lie
One of the biggest lies that men keep on falling for is the lie that to sleep with a girl, there must be some kind of attraction on the woman’s part. This is a belief that will keep you from getting sex from the woman that you want to have it with.
If you believe that there has to be an attraction on her part, this will keep you from getting women to say yes – even when you’re just asking her out on a date. It will keep you from getting to kiss or touch her and it will certainly keep you out of her bed.
These lies that keep men from getting laid can be pretty persuasive, so if you’ve believed them, don’t feel bad. Just don’t keep on believing them. Instead, do something about it right now.
One of these lies teaches that there are no gray areas when it comes to attraction. This isn’t true. When you’re interacting with a woman, it’s not simply a matter of she likes you or she doesn’t like you.
It’s also not a matter of she’s interested in what you’re saying and that in turn leads to her being interested in going all the way with you. And believe it or not, attraction has nothing to do with her being open to the idea of sleeping with you.
It doesn’t even have anything to do with whether she’ll even be willing to give you the time of day or not. Attraction can be taken completely off the table. So if you’ve met a hot girl in the past and she blew you off, you might have thought that she just wasn’t interested because she wasn’t attracted to you.
If that’s been your thought process before, you need to back up a minute. Don’t for one second think that her brush off has anything at all to do with you. That’s all on her.
Getting a woman to sleep with you is a matter of what she’s thinking and it’s not a matter of her feeling attracted to you. Unlike a man, a woman changes her mind quickly and without a lot of dwelling on it. That’s because her emotions rule, whereas a man’s logic rules.
Women are more easily persuaded by what a man says than a man is by what a woman says. That, my friend, is your key to getting into her good places. You can use a technique that teaches you how to get her to sleep with you just because you know how to use the right words.
Now, hang on a second. This is not about some canned line that you can feed her. Trust me, women see right through that bull. This is about you learning how the female psych works enough so that you know how to leverage it to get what you want.
If that sounds sneaky, it’s not. Women don’t always know that you’re the right guy based on communication alone. That’s because a lot of guys just don’t know how to talk to a woman in a way that makes her hot for him.